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[kompawoolala]

YOU SEE OWEN RATHER YOU DO IT FOR THE MONEY THE POST IS ABOUT IF KNEW A WOMEN SLEPT WITH 5 DIFFERENT WHO YOU MARRY THAT WOMEN. IT'S DOESN'T MATTER IF YOU GOING TO SPENT THE REST OF YOUR WITH A WOMEN, THERE IS NO SUCH THING SPENT THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH SOMEONE. IT'S A ONE DAY AT A TIME DEAL, NO ONE STICK FOR LIFE.

[owen1055]

kompawoolala wrote:

YOU SEE OWEN RATHER YOU DO IT FOR THE MONEY THE POST IS ABOUT IF KNEW A WOMEN SLEPT WITH 5 DIFFERENT WHO YOU MARRY THAT WOMEN. IT'S DOESN'T MATTER IF YOU GOING TO SPENT THE REST OF YOUR WITH A WOMEN, THERE IS NO SUCH THING SPENT THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH SOMEONE. IT'S A ONE DAY AT A TIME DEAL, NO ONE STICK FOR LIFE.

To answer your question, Yes I would marry someone who slept with a lot guys before me. The question we are debating is at how many sexual partners do we start to question someone's judgement. I m sure that number might be different for every single one of us, but personally I would question or pause for a second if a girl told she has slept with 40-50 guys. It would make ask more questions and wonder what it is going on.

In no way I m saying people cannot change or dont deserve a real relationship bc of their sexual history, but track record do matter. People go through different phases life, but I need to know that the sleeping around is in the past.
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[kompawoolala]

OWNEN I WILL NEVER ASK A WOMEN HOW MANY MEN SHE SLEPT WITH, BECAUSE I KNOW I WILL NOT FIND A HONEST ANSWER. IF I KNOW A WOMEN SLEPT WITH A LOT OF GUYS, AM I GOING TO SLEEP WITH THAT WOMEN, YES BECAUSE I USED TO GO TO CAFE, YES I USED PROTECTION, AND I MAY NOT TAKE THAT WOMEN FOR MY WIFE, I DON'T USED THE WORD SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE. NO MARRIAGE ARE FOR LIFE. MAYBE.

[owen1055]

Kompa,

I do understand marriage is for life, but most intention when they get married is that they intend to spend the rest of their life with that person. Circumstances may change things and force the two people to go their separate ways ,but I really doubt anyone gets married for just a few years.
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THERE IS A HUGE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN OPINION AND FACTS.

[kompawoolala]

BOTHER I AGREE WITH YOU 100%, BUT I BEEN MARRIED AND DIVORCE, THAT THE REASON I CAN'T SAY I WILL SPENT THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH SOMEONE. IF I EVER GET MY MARRIED AGAIN I WILL SAY MY WIFE THAT'S ALL. BUT I ALWAYS WHICH A LOT PEOPLE TO WORK ON THERE MARRIAGE UNTIL GOD CALL YOU.