KOMPA! MAGAZINE

[sweet enticer]

Ladies and Gentlemen:

Picture this!!!! You have been dating (no sex) “Dating� this woman or man for three weeks and one day he or she shows up unexpected in front of your door. What is your view on unexpected visit from someone you’re dating who states “I was just driving through your neighborhood and I decided to stop by!!!?�

[MINGOLOVE]

Just stop there !!! Cut that persdon lose because they should have call prior to showing up at your crib. It doesn't matter they were just driving by or if they live one block away from where you live.

Some people do it just to surprise you... others do it just to find out whether or not you seeing someone else, and it's always an excuse when they say I WAS JUST DRIVING BY.

If you only dating someone and they already stopping by without noticing you, you, imagine when the relationship becomes serious, that person will stalk you everywhere you are. at work, at church, at home etc...

Me, I don't like surpriuse becauise the person trying to surprise me might end up getting an unexpecting and heartbroken surprise.
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[strawdeva]

DJ MINGOLOVE wrote:

Just stop there !!! Cut that persdon lose because they should have call prior to showing up at your crib. It doesn't matter they were just driving by or if they live one block away from where you live. Some people do it just to surprise you... others do it just to find out whether or not you seeing someone else, and it's always an excuse when they say I WAS JUST DRIVING BY. If you only dating someone and they already stopping by without noticing you, you, imagine when the relationship becomes serious, that person will stalk you everywhere you are. at work, at church, at home etc... Me, I don't like surpriuse becauise the person trying to surprise me might end up getting an unexpecting and heartbroken surprise.

Yes...that is the truth...DJ Mingolove...I agree 100 and 10 percent...Let the person go...

[KREOLA]

MINGOLOVE AND DEVA

I hate the unexpected visits because I like to look fly specially if we are dating
I think Y'all a bit too harsh...Why cut the person loose
How about telling the person politely that you don't really appreciate unexpected visits. If it happens again then yes it's time to let that person go.
If you have nothing to hide then it shouldn't matter. That's why it's always best to be honest at the beginning

[KARAMEL]

KREOLA wrote:

MINGOLOVE AND DEVA I hate the unexpected visits because I like to look fly specially if we are dating I think Y'all a bit too harsh...Why cut the person loose How about telling the person politely that you don't really appreciate unexpected visits. If it happens again then yes it's time to let that person go. If you have nothing to hide then it shouldn't matter. That's why it's always best to be honest at the beginning

Grenadière Micky Kreola....
mwen pa fin'n dakor ak ou... Se yon question de principe, mwen pa bizwen gin anyin map kaché...
2b honest, depi yon komansman relation ou suppozé fè t-tonton an konèt ki sa ki acceptable, ki sa ki pa acceptable, mete li alèz etc...
mwen pa care jan mwen te ka damou yon nèg, depi'w nan fè t-mouveman vin'n lakay/ travay mwen san'w pa annoncé'm, depi portable mwen sonnin jwé ap fixer sou indicateur a, sa tou di'm ke fok mwen pran ampil prekotion ako'w ... Ou ka y vin'n tounin yon "ti-lindang" pou mwen

One Luv,

Kara

[KARAMEL]

DJ MINGOLOVE wrote:

Just stop there !!! Cut that persdon lose because they should have call prior to showing up at your crib. It doesn't matter they were just driving by or if they live one block away from where you live. Some people do it just to surprise you... others do it just to find out whether or not you seeing someone else, and it's always an excuse when they say I WAS JUST DRIVING BY. If you only dating someone and they already stopping by without noticing you, you, imagine when the relationship becomes serious, that person will stalk you everywhere you are. at work, at church, at home etc... Me, I don't like surprise because the person trying to surprise me might end up getting an unexpecting and heartbroken surprise.

Wap suiv !

Tu as tout/ bien dit... Se yon jwèt dangeré wi t-mouvement "pop surprise" sa !

One Luv,

Kara

[DonGabbana]

M'pa enmen supriz mwen menm
E'M pa enmen moun kontwole'm
So kit sa swa kòman, moun sa pa size mwen
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[rickykompa]

well it depends of the situation you can let it go or having some time
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[islandspicey]

That's some "stalker status' bs..
Not cool!
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'The superior man is modest in his speech, but exceeds in his actions' - Confucius

[strawdeva]

To answer everyones questions about my decision on this, for me if the person shows up to our house unexpectedly its a thing of respect....so that means they don't call and just come...what if I am not wanting visitors....it takes 2 minutes to dial a number......I am a person that if I don't know you coming I could be in my relaxed house clothes...and I usually don't need people to see me in shorts and a tee-shirt...and secondly I was brought up that way....you want to go visit someone call ahead.....even if you don't give a specific time, give a margin...that is just me....Also if someone is showing up constantly with no invitation then there is no trust...If I trust you, no reason for you to doubt me...I am not the one to lie.....I treat you like I want to be treated...so just stop right there if you think you can just come up on me...no way.....