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[SCreaM]

laj ...

lets just say that I have Kids, a good businees, property and
I still am a die hard fan of Video games.X-Box Live, and comic books

Everything I said doesn't mean
that you shouldn't have a head on your shoulders and act stupid .

There is a time for everything,
Serious relationships
take time to build and if it's always easy it's not
worth it. If one is not ready for it, It wont happen

So all I could say is live your life to the fullest ...
but also be open to all possibilities

Well this forun is about music , so i guess i'll leave it at that
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[preciousgem]

SCreaM wrote:

Scream is not a She I am a He Too late to wake up now , when I said all my live I meant ALL my life. we went through the good and the bad together and it creates a bond that nothing can break. We are two independant individuals that respect each other bounderies we know our streghs and weaknesses and we've always been there for each other Monney comes and goes, but society makes you beleive that you are nothing without it. So many people fall in that trap. Material things will never define who I am as a human being. you cant rely on someone to take care of you know what you want and go for it. " Simple " not easy but simple. Yes I do beleive in love, and always will. Yes I am a dreamer Where would we be without dreamers ? think about it for a while. What does it take for someone to be happy ? Think it's cute, maby but it doesn't make it any less true

Wow and this is coming from a male...ok. I didn't know men like you exist.

I for one think that age is just a number. You just have to find the right man to meet your needs. I'm 30 and I've dated men that are 5 yrs younger than me. The man that I chose were smart, had a job, their own place, fun, etc. So it's all good. I haven't date an older man yet...but I'm sure i'll find out one day.lol
Just like Siromyel said when your in a relationship you must factor in compatibility, understanding, communication., patience, and trust. Love is not enough

[SCreaM]

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Wow and this is coming from a male...ok. I didn't know men like you exist.

Yeah ! weird isn't it ... the thing is , I have nothing to prove ... It's a mental state.
I like the way I am and it doesn't make me weak !

Quote:

" Love is not enough "

Agreed ...

towards the one you care about, you will show
Patience, understanding and trust.
You will always want to communicate and when one of the two cant
the other one will show patience and understanding
until he/she comes around ...
It's mutual , a give and take ... You just have to figure out what is important to you in life ...
It all works together as you said ...
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[Ayani]

SCreaM wrote:

Scream is not a She I am a He Too late to wake up now , when I said all my live I meant ALL my life. we went through the good and the bad together and it creates a bond that nothing can break. We are two independant individuals that respect each other bounderies we know our streghs and weaknesses and we've always been there for each other Monney comes and goes, but society makes you beleive that you are nothing without it. So many people fall in that trap. Material things will never define who I am as a human being. you cant rely on someone to take care of you know what you want and go for it. " Simple " not easy but simple. Yes I do beleive in love, and always will. Yes I am a dreamer Where would we be without dreamers ? think about it for a while. What does it take for someone to be happy ? Think it's cute, maby but it doesn't make it any less true

You're a HE.. ..like I said before ...you're one of the few
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[johnd]

naturellecreole wrote:

well ladies mwen konprann nou, oh yeah I do understand all 3 of you but one thing for sure it's not for maturity that you girls are dating the older guys, you girls are doing it for security. Nothing to blame, kote security mwen ye se la mwen ye. lanmou mwen reciprok selman kote securite a ye. I dated older guys at least 10 to 15 years older than me and I also dated younger ones all of them were mature enough and ladies dating a guy about your age is not bad at all. aprann choisi that's all, pa kouri selman sou bank account lan, cuz where the money at it's not always where hapiness at. kel jeun kel granmoun depi gen lanmou callllllllllllllll meeeeeeeeeee

will you mary me kreyol lol
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[owen1055]

SCreaM wrote:

Quote: Wow and this is coming from a male...ok. I didn't know men like you exist. Yeah ! weird isn't it ... the thing is , I have nothing to prove ... It's a mental state. I like the way I am and it doesn't make me weak ! Quote: " Love is not enough " Agreed ... towards the one you care about, you will show Patience, understanding and trust. You will always want to communicate and when one of the two cant the other one will show patience and understanding until he/she comes around ... It's mutual , a give and take ... You just have to figure out what is important to you in life ... It all works together as you said ...

That is the truth my friend... A lot times people's views on relationship come from the few relationship they ever had without knowing that there circumstances was by far a different a different situation. The truth is relationship take time to built, patient, dedication and most importantly tolerance. There is no such as the perfect person, but that does not mean that there is a special that best fit in within the type you are.
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[Faby75]

I think, Does age is the garrantee of maturity? There are many example of younger man having greater responsibility and careness and more intellectuel compared average man and many older man having less responsibility. Again an 25-35 years ages compared generaly have more sexual potential than 35-55. Women tend to be attracted to maturity and stability. Older men are usually more financially secure and also more likely to be ready to settle down and start a family and they know how to treat women and pershaps more experienced and can offer a form of security, stability, commitment and comfort. Younger men are always ready for adventure and willing to try out new things and women being who we are tend to like romantic gestures. Anyway, I like both!! LOL....

[SIROMYEL]

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towards the one you care about, you will show Patience, understanding and trust. You will always want to communicate and when one of the two cant the other one will show patience and understanding until he/she comes around ... It's mutual , a give and take ... You just have to figure out what is important to you in life ... It all works together as you said ...

This pretty much sums up what I said inmy previous post.

The only difference is that I don't believe that where there is love, all of those things necessarily exist... trust, communication, patience, and understanding.

Sometimes two personalities, even thought they may love, just cannot work together.

And sometimes even though people love, they are not willing to put in the work.

Trust me I know from other people's experiences and my own.

[kafou]

Faby75 wrote:

I think, Does age is the garrantee of maturity? There are many example of younger man having greater responsibility and careness and more intellectuel compared average man and many older man having less responsibility. Again an 25-35 years ages compared generaly have more sexual potential than 35-55. Women tend to be attracted to maturity and stability. Older men are usually more financially secure and also more likely to be ready to settle down and start a family and they know how to treat women and pershaps more experienced and can offer a form of security, stability, commitment and comfort. Younger men are always ready for adventure and willing to try out new things and women being who we are tend to like romantic gestures. Anyway, I like both!! LOL....

SE LA KI BEL ANPIL LA!

Se la mwen renmen an nan bel Literature SEKIRITE'N TIGHT ALL THE TIME.
let me guess the romantic Gestures are Visits from Tiffani's, and the walk down 5th Ave. Anmweyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy a la romantic Venues Les femmes renmen fe avek Granmoun YO PAPA.

ENFIN LA PAIX BON DIEU AVEK NOU TOUT LES FEMMES. INDEED THAT SENTENCE WAS FUNNY!
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