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DANIELBONZAM
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 Posted: Thu Mar 08, 2007 9:38 pm Post subject: HOW WOULD YOU END A RELATIONSHIP? (The right way) |
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Do you think it's necessary for the person to see you saying the words "It's over ok" (so they can have some sense of closure or what...)
How would you end a relationship? "Nicely"
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DANIELBONZAM
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Telling someone you don't love them anymore must be done face-to-face or not?
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XXplosive
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Dany Boy, that's the hardest thing to do in a relationship. Even if you don't really love the person, it's always hard to break someone's heart. I don't think there's a nice way or good way to do it. It's painfull everyway.
Even if you get this person to break up with you, you still feel the pain of doing things for the sole purpose to hurt her.
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DANIELBONZAM
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| XXplosive wrote: |
Dany Boy, that's the hardest thing to do in a relationship. Even if you don't really love the person, it's always hard to break someone's heart. I don't think there's a nice way or good way to do it. It's painfull everyway.
Even if you get this person to break up with you, you still feel the pain of doing things for the sole purpose to hurt her. |
I hate hurting anyone! Dumping someone who's madly in love with us is like shutting the door on that cute stray dog that followed you home to your no-pets-allowed building and licked your nose when you bent over to see if it had an ID tag in its coller. (Actually, it's worse, because at lest with the dog you can bring it inside and call your mother to convince her one more pet won't matter you know)
Got it?
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DANIELBONZAM
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Guys, what about sit him/her down and deliver the speech?
Rouiii sa red net 
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XXplosive
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| DANIELBONZAM wrote: |
Guys, what about sit him/her down and deliver the speech?
Rouiii sa red net |
Bon Dany Boy ou fware'm net. Depi se face a face, mwen pedi control, mwen bliye sa pou'm di. Sans konte si fanm lan ap kriye devan'w. Sa se pi move experience ke mwen janm passe.
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KREOLA
Joined: 13 Mar 2006
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Ahhhhhhhhhhh You guys sound so sensitive 
This reminds me of my favorite K-Dans song:
"Doudou nou kite mais se pas yon rezon pou'n enemy,
Doudou nou kite mais nou ka toujour rete zanmi"
Breaking up is always hard to do except if you're one of those cold-hearted creatures that plays around for a living 
My favorite line is:
Cheri my family doesn't like youor your style... Nous paka continuer enkore mais nou ka toujour rete zanmi  |
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zipgenel
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THE EASIEST THING IS TO PETE KOKEN, FE 2-3 JOU NOU PA PALE... EPI DI: BON MWEN PA NAN B.S KONSA ANKO.. MWEN MET DEYO.. 
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DANIELBONZAM
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| Posted: Sat Mar 10, 2007 10:24 am Post subject: |
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Let's try do it the right way:
How would you 'end' a relationship?
a) At his/her place
b) In person, public spot
c) On the phone
d) Make yourself unavailable and hope he/she catches on
e) Or text it
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younghaitian88
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What has to be done has to be done
U go to the person, please don't use the phone or anything else. Konn gen moun ki panse ke se jwe or ranse wap ranse that way.
Tell the person how it is and Why u decided that it would be better to break up. The WHY is really important.
That's the best way to do it even though it will hurt both parties, later on |
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