KOMPA! MAGAZINE

[daphnee]

I don't know guys...I think my gaydar is up to par but sometimes a couple of dudes throw you off. Everything about him says he's straight, marriage, kids, even sports but something about him is still throwing you off!!! Some of the stuff that bother me...your pinky finger...if you stick it out more than I do=questionnable...if all you think about is anal sex and that's all you want=gay, a great majority of your friends are female=questionable. your swagger (your walk)...if you walk with more of a switch than I do-your suspect...If you've spent time in the penitentary for more than five years,=I suspect that either someone tossed your salad, offered to toss your salad, or your booty got played with at some point anyway..Do you guys/gals have any acts that make you question someone's sexual status???
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[KREOLA]

Daphnee,

Those type of guys are called "METROSEXUALS"

The ones that kills me is the "ARCHED EYEBROWS"

The next one I'm about to mention is not the typical dude that can cook spaghetti, I mean real cooking from A-Z
** Gason ki kon fais mange... Woush, yo pa negosier cuisine yo ak fem meme** I tend to question them!

[PlusHfully Yours]

Daph.. Girl Good Question.. I'm a video collector. I love watching Porn.. Oh wait.. I don't collect gay porn but there is a website that I've watched and it was Gay Black Men.. Curiosity got the best of me and I had to watch plus I wanted to learn a trick or two.. lol! but let me tell you how BANGIN' these men look! They didn't have that swagger..ect. They looked like your average thug dude.. nice goatee, body like whooa, the nice manly tattoos.. and those dudes were really getting down! Im like MEZANMI! They had me straight up fooled.

So when it comes to men sexual status, I definitely do question. You have your obvious but then you have those undercover brothas'!

To answer your question though.. I say HAND GESTURES is a good way to detect. I've danced with many men who were "in the closet". I've always suspected but they never really came out. One thing that I noticed with them was their hands as they talked.

Another one would be... their reaction to some juicy gossip. They go.."Ah Ah guuurrrlll!... followed by a Tcchuuiip and pucker of the lips".. LMAO!

Kreola.. Men waxing their eyebrows to get that perfect arch... hmmm make you think huh! I always questioned that!
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[daphnee]

Kreola...I understand the "metro sexuals"...if its about maintining...like getting a mani/pedi not arching your eyebrows but trimming them cuz we do have some hairy men out there then I'm good:)

But sometimes you get those dudes that really look like they're perpetrating and yet they're trying so hard to act like they're straight. If I get an inkling that you may be on the other side of the fence and they're trying to holla then I've already dismissed you as an option..sorry.

EY-the hand gestures get at me to...and you definitely can't go wrong with that whole "gurrrl" thing... too funny
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[rossignol]

in the black community it is better to worry about the men who appear straight then to go bonkers over the ones who attempt to give you some hint they might have more sugar than salt.....some non gay men have effiminate qualities.....on the other hand, a very good number of gay black men don't appear to be so....and therein lies the danger!!!

[bella_mafia1]

Pa'a blye anpil nan yo, se ssssss refoule. Yo konen ke nan antouraje yo, bagay ssssss sa'a pa'a gen place li. Alor yo refoule li. Men toujou gen ti sign pou trahis yo.

Exemple: Yo rete avek staff fanm ka'p bay blague. u know ladies (when we are just chilling in some spot, epi na'p gade ti flanneur ka'p pase) epi ou we ti jjjjj-refoule ki toujou nan mitan nou. just like se patneze nou. li ap fe menm critike avek nou sou lot neg ka'p pase. li gen menm fason pale avek nou. nou te met rete entre fanm, menm si li la'a. sa'a pa'a deranje. paske se tankou se menm nou menm li ye. lolll !!!

Epi an jou kan menm... 1 year, 5 years or more... se menm li menm ki vinn fe deklaration, ke li se an ssssss... etc etc

Gen anpil ka'p pran lari'an wi ... Watch out !!! Nou pral pense ke se metro sexual... epi alor ke se an bon grenn ssssss...