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[MINGOLOVE]

KM members,

Selon nou menm, se ki sa ki yon LANMOU DEZIOEM MEN? Ki definisyon nou ka bay pou term LANMOU DEZIEM MEN ?


KM/Pat wrote:

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MINGO....You must know of what you are talking about if you say that you are cheating on your girl, and then you still down with your girl. SHE HAS EVERY RIGHT to think that "WAP BALI LANMOU 2EME Men

Cleo came out with a song called "Lanmou Deziem Men" and by hearing the title about 2 weeks ago, I was expecting the songs lyrics to go a certain way, but only to find out (after seeing the video) she was talking about her man cheating on her.

It seems that, like Cleo or the songwriter, KM (Pat) is seeing a 2nd hand love (Lanmou Deziem Men) as a relationsghip where one of the mates cheat on the other.

Mwen ta renmen konnen sa nou menm panse de "Lanmou Deziem Men" (Second hand love) ? Ki jan nou defini yon LANMOU DEZIEM MEN ?

I'll come back with my thought on this later...
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Last edited by MINGOLOVE on Fri May 11, 2007 11:02 am; edited 1 time in total

[MINGOLOVE]

Here is my take:

(English)
Let's say you are in a relationship (open or stable) with someone, somewhere in the relationship she/he dumps you for another man or woman, but after a few months or years she/he is trying to get back with you because that didn't work between her/her and the person she/he dumped you for, AND you accept that person back in your life... THAT'S A SECOND HAND LOVE!

Kreyol:
Si ou renmen ak yon moun, epi yon jou li leve li REVOKE ou pou yon lot neg oubyen fanm, menm aprè kelke moua ou kèlke ane ke li pase avèk lot moun sa, epi li ouè sa pa mache, li kite lot moun nan epi li mande ou tounen, si ou tounen avèk li, se yon LANMOU DEZIEM MEN.

That's my view about LANMOU DEZIEM MEN, paske mwen gen yon pwop zanmi pa'm yo kite'l yon premie foua pou yon lot neg, 10 moua pita fi a retounen mesie asepte pwan manmzel back... Then 6 mopua pa pase, manmzel kite misie anko pou yon lot neg ke manmzel te fek rankontre, deziem neg la kite manmzel apre ke li fini manje. Guess what, she run back to my friend who take her back. Now that';s a THIRD HAND LOVE (LANMOU TROUAZIEM MEN).

Menm lè partnè'm lan di se peye lap fè manmzel peye sa aprè pou'l kite manmzel tou, I still think misie te supoze ap manje anba anba san ke li pa kite moun konnen ke yo tounen , san ke li pat mennen manmzel pyès kote an piblik.
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The views/opinions that I express on KM are strictly and solely those of MINGOLOVE, the HMEI personality, and should not be associated in any way with my membership in any other fields nor be held against me in any matter not related to entertainment.

[philosophenoir]

I think the quote itself is self-explanatory , it tells you enough just in case you want more details.
I am a man. My honest answer will certainly be every other man’s honest answer, mais Rousseau (Jean-Jacques) dirait qu’il y a des vérités qui n’ont aucune sorte d’utilité ni pour l’instruction ni dans la pratique. Par contre, j’accuse tous les lecteurs d’être intelligents assez pour lire entre les lignes.
« Lanmou dezyem men », si tu es marié (e) i.e. tu as chez toi ta femme (ton époux) chez toi, et voila que tu es dans une autre relation sérieuse avec une personne. D’après moi, encore je répète d’après moi il y une entre ces deux qui reçoit de « lanmou dezyem men ».
Si toute fois, t’es pas marié (e), tiens il arrive que t’as deux partenaires…..(les dieux sont contents)……comme on dit on est comme on est et on vit comme on vit.

Dans l’ordre moral c’est pas recommandé d’avoir plus qu’un partenaire….mais qui ose parler de l’ordre moral ? Pas moi !
Antouka mwen menm je dis toute fois que cet amour est donné a quelqu’un autre que la personne qui est légalement placée pour le recevoir…….cet amour est « dezyem men »
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