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Timafi
Joined: 11 Mar 2006
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Location: North Lauderdale, Fl
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If your bf has a child with another woman, then you never knew about it until the woman found your number and called you to let you know about it?
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VALBOSKI
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Location: Hawaii, USA
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Talk to the BF and find out if he really has a child. If he concurs with the allegation, DUMP HIM.
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haitianqueen
Joined: 11 Mar 2006
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Location: Kwabosal
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First you should talk to the BF. If it is true you either have to stay or leave.
If you choose to stay you have to be there for your BF and support him. If you choose you can be there for the child as well.
You have to understand that there is really nothing you can do about it but encourage him to take responsibility for his child.
The bottom line is you have to make the descision, either you stay or leave.
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FUNKY
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Timafi
Joined: 11 Mar 2006
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Location: North Lauderdale, Fl
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Like Haitianqueen said I would encourage him to take his responsibility for his child. I would dumb him because I wouldn't be able to put up with the baby mama drama. If he really loves you, he wouldn't get the woman pregnant while you still with him.
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FUNKY
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| If he really loves you, he wouldn't get the woman pregnant while you still with him. |
sometimes se pa ke yo renmen ou non...but bagay la pa ka rete en dedan pantalon......fok li parking kan memm  |
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SIROMYEL
Joined: 11 Mar 2006
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Location: TAMPA
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was this baby dorn before you and he just never told you or while you are with him? it does make a difference.
if it's before, I may or may not leave, it depends. Ialwasysay Idon't want no babby mama drama. but youcan never say never.
If it's during, more likely than not, I will leave. |
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belchokola
Joined: 12 Mar 2006
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Location: NY
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Well, I will ask him about it. Who is intel? Evidenently they have some contact as she's hittin me up.... How old is the child? Is it prior to our relationship? During? Actually....a man that can hide his "other life" is not worthy of me!! Point bar!!!
The child is the innocent party here....whether or not she knew about me or not is and remains irrelevant. He chose to do his thang with her...and obviously not use protection. 
I'd ask cause I'd want to know the details...but most likely there is very lil that would make me stay. Deception. Lies. Not being man enough to tell me about his child....if a man can not talk about his child then to me he still lacks what makes it essential for him to be a man!!! And that's courage to admit fault, and the strength to sit me down man and woman to tell me so!!! |
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Sanrick
Joined: 11 Mar 2006
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| was this baby born before you and he just never told you or while you are with him? it does make a difference. |
I would like to know Timafi |
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Tilouj
Joined: 12 Mar 2006
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| Pou kisa li pat ka di-w sa le bagay la komanse serieux? Mwen tap poze tet mwen kesyon ki lot bagay li kache pou mwen? Se sak fe mwen tap jete'm. |
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