KOMPA! MAGAZINE

[SweetnessCarlyVice]

Below is an exerpt from an interview with Mo'Nique (from "The Parkers"):

"I married my best friend. Sid and I don’t put a label on what works for us because it’s ours. But some people might say that we have an open relationship. Some people consider sex outside of marriage to be cheating, but I think you’re cheating when you lie and keep secrets. We’re honest with each other."

I thought cheating in the context of a marriage, was any kind of dabbling romantically with someone other than your spouse. I think it's called cheating because you're cheating the other person out of the benefits and total committment of a (supposedly) life-long relationship. What are your thoughts? And also, are "open marriages" the in thing now? What's the point of getting married if it's gonna be like you're single and playing the field anyhow?
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The heart of mankind can be a dark,
disgusting cave of jealousy and envy.
Be careful of whom u think is ur friend.
(MAK)

[Negjacmel]

I don't know in what context she made that Statement but I think what she's trying to say is that she's Living a SWINGER lifestyle. I think when she said they are honest with each other it doesn't mean whenever he sleep with someone else he comes home and tell her about it, I think they are both on site when the extra marital sex is taking place.
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Jodi a li se zanmi m demin li ka madanm ou min lap toujou rete Zanmi m....VEKELE !

[ReineDiana]

To me cheating is sharing your body with someone other than your significant other and bestowing upon that person the same emotional feelings once felt for that so-called significant other...hence...you went over the limit and therefore broke a certain trust and or special bond.

Anything else as far as I am concerned, is not considered cheating...matter of fact, a little flirting with others here and there, is good for your relationship...it keeps your relationship healty and forces couples to keep the game alive, and again not take each other for granted, all the while maintaining a certain level of excitement and desire.

Disclaimer:
alors, mwen pa voye moune al konyin, fe desod, pou pran maladi pote bay mari, madanm non...all I suggested is a little harmless flirting, that's all
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[ViceB]

A lot of people take marriage so light, i think if u still have that habbit of going outdoor to get your popsicle taking care of or a little heat in your car or quickie in the hotel, you sure are ap passe tet ou ak madam ou nan tintin. And u lie about it as well, thats a no no.
Nowadays it is in, to marry and have an open relationship and as a freak that i am, we are married, yes but if u are cheating, it better be a threesome;)
On the real, si yon moun pa pare, ou pa marrier.
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ViceB pa janm pa la!

[Lola]

it's only cheating if you get caught.
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"A man never discloses his character so clearly as when he describes another's"
JP Richter

[tripplej19]

Yeah, I couldn't saying it any better
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"It's not wheter you win or lose, it's wheter I win"

[DonGabbana]

Quote:

What exactly is CHEATING???

Dunno n Don't wanna know
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SE PA MAJI!!! SE TRAVAY DI!!!

[Min kompa]

Cheating se le yo kembe 'w..ak le parol la pale.hahah
Kies ki la , ki reussi marier ak moun ke yo te konte marier avek li a..No one. so sa montre ke depi ou rankontre ak neg or fanm ke ou te we ke se avel pou ou te fe vi'w la , wap koupe kanmem.Depi gen possiblite a.
pa banm Nana pou Suzane..plz
Mwen pa di nou sa deja ,
sak pi du nan lanmou an, se le ou jwen moun nan an flagant delit ap bay madanm ou yon MUFFLER ,yon bagay ke ou poko janm fe. E ou pa vle fe ave'l , epi ou jwenn li ap pran plezi li ladann avek neg ou pa ta janm panse a. Ou paka voye pye paske li mande'w li ou pa vle bali li...Kounye a nou oblige fache ..Men si ou renmen mennaj ou or madanm ou , ou pap kite 'l pou sa...gen neg ki toujou di ke yap kite!!hummm...Mwen menm , mpap kite .. Sak kap fe m mal se si neg la al pale sa.E vagabon an ap pale kanmem , paske si li pa pale se komsi li pat koupe..
Sak pi bel la , se le nou reconcilier , Moun damou pa kite ..

[chkevin]

Min kompa ou genle pran anpil kou dans ces matieres.

So people what are the real definitions of Open Relationships and Open Marriages? Anyone hit me up.

[Min kompa]

ou konn bagay yo piti ,, se vagabon JACMEL mwen ye ,man.. Mwen konn sa yo rele plezi a.