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[PlusHfully Yours]

(I'm on the sidelines with a group of friends via email and we are having a interesting discussion and I thought I'd bring it on the board for discussion & opinion.. See below!)

The Scenario: (gosh I miss doing these..)

You meet this person and the getting to know you transition has been
good. You guys are vibing.. and everything just seems right. You guys
spend quality time.... hanging out.. endless conversations on
the phone.. laughing.. smiling.. things are going great between the two
of you. After a date, he ends up in your place and you guys are enjoying
one another's company. While spending time, you two begin to get
"touchy" "feely". One thing leads to another and you're all over one
another. This is your first physical contact with this person. Should
you limit what you do SEXUALLY with this person?? When you are feeling someone and at the moment, it seems right, you really don't think of limits so you basically choose to go with the flow. That flow can possibly go above and beyond a simple sexual session. It gets deeper.. such as oral sex...ect.

So my question for discussion is... In a new "relationship" or whatever
the two of you share, should there be certain limits?.. and if one of
the parties involved decides to take things to a different level
sexually in the beginning stage, would that change your view of this
person???

[KREOLA]

I won't speak for everyone but YES there should be a limit.
I don't do ORAL on the first encounter maybe the third (kidding)
I would keep it strictly at FOREPLAY/TEASING level. Touch here and there, suck here and there, frote la oubien sou sa... you get the darn point
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[malfrending4life]

it doesnt matter to me like you said if its the first time, i will let her take control casue iam a freak by nature iam down with anything, i will let her do her nahmean. at the same time i will try to do my thing such as doggy move, pull the hair lil bit, a lil spank on and on, if she doesnt like it now i will ask he wat she likes you know, when it comes to having sex for the first time y'all ladies a litlle bit shy, u know y'all dont wanna turn on the light or stay onder the cover. i think if we doing it for the first time we should go all the way because we both been there and done it.

is that good enought EY.
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[zabelbok]

The only reason I think there should be limits is because:

MYSTERY is sexy and keeps humans coming back to find out more.

Ou bay tout nan 1er round, pa gen moun kap rete gad match la.

My 2 cents, good scenario EY

[daphnee]

Nope...jsut give him a preview of what's to come and have them coming back for more. no need to go all out
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[MINGOLOVE]

Erotically Yours wrote:

(I'm on the sidelines with a group of friends via email and we are having a interesting discussion and I thought I'd bring it on the board for discussion & opinion.. See below!) The Scenario: (gosh I miss doing these..) You meet this person and the getting to know you transition has been good. You guys are vibing.. and everything just seems right. You guys spend quality time.... hanging out.. endless conversations on the phone.. laughing.. smiling.. things are going great between the two of you. After a date, he ends up in your place and you guys are enjoying one another's company. While spending time, you two begin to get "touchy" "feely". One thing leads to another and you're all over one another. This is your first physical contact with this person. Should you limit what you do SEXUALLY with this person?? When you are feeling someone and at the moment, it seems right, you really don't think of limits so you basically choose to go with the flow. That flow can possibly go above and beyond a simple sexual session. It gets deeper.. such as oral sex...ect. So my question for discussion is... In a new "relationship" or whatever the two of you share, should there be certain limits?.. and if one of the parties involved decides to take things to a different level sexually in the beginning stage, would that change your view of this person???

I am often against the idea of women playing hard to get or taking to long to give it up.
If you already went through the get-to-know-each-other phase, hey now we making out and my "bell" start ringing, do not limit me, just let the mass begin.

The older Haitians have a way of thinking and a lot of parents often tell their kids not to give it up too quick because the man will not respect you.
That's BS ! It doesn't matter to me how quick you give it up to me. I might meet you at the club and we do the nasty the same night, as long there is something more than the sex in you to keep me staying, I could careless how quick you let me have it.
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[LayD_vice]

zabelbok wrote:

The only reason I think there should be limits is because: MYSTERY is sexy and keeps humans coming back to find out more. Ou bay tout nan 1er round, pa gen moun kap rete gad match la. My 2 cents, good scenario EY

I HAVE 2 AGREE WITH U ZABELBOK.
AS 4 ME PERSONALLY I LOVE A CHALLENGE
AND A SIDE OF DAT THERES A LOT OF "DISEASES" OUT THERE, SO I AM REAAALLLLYYY CAREFUL WITH DAT
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[Benny Blanco]

You might ppppp around and have him not come back at all... What the ppppp you holding out for? You gonna give the twat up, just do it... No show and tell here... Si'w wap ba'm, ba'm, si'w wap fer shish... NEXT

daphnee wrote:

Nope...jsut give him a preview of what's to come and have them coming back for more. no need to go all out

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[Benny Blanco]

@Mingo - what the ppppp is get to know phase... that's why I don't ppppp with Haitian woman in particular... Because twop foking rules... Ki get to know stage sa.. Ou pa kwe si krek ou cho, kok mwen fret, se mete yo deux ansam... Yon famn ter mete coupe'm premier nuit nou encontrez, o bien deuxeme semaine, there's no difference...

And you know what I love... Women who come out with intentions of not giving the bobot up, and before they know it, dick done slipped up in their pussy... Then the next morning, yap bay ou blag ke yo pa kon fer sa, but paske ou diferan... Diferan kijan...

DJ MINGOLOVE wrote:

Erotically Yours wrote: (I'm on the sidelines with a group of friends via email and we are having a interesting discussion and I thought I'd bring it on the board for discussion & opinion.. See below!) The Scenario: (gosh I miss doing these..) You meet this person and the getting to know you transition has been good. You guys are vibing.. and everything just seems right. You guys spend quality time.... hanging out.. endless conversations on the phone.. laughing.. smiling.. things are going great between the two of you. After a date, he ends up in your place and you guys are enjoying one another's company. While spending time, you two begin to get "touchy" "feely". One thing leads to another and you're all over one another. This is your first physical contact with this person. Should you limit what you do SEXUALLY with this person?? When you are feeling someone and at the moment, it seems right, you really don't think of limits so you basically choose to go with the flow. That flow can possibly go above and beyond a simple sexual session. It gets deeper.. such as oral sex...ect. So my question for discussion is... In a new "relationship" or whatever the two of you share, should there be certain limits?.. and if one of the parties involved decides to take things to a different level sexually in the beginning stage, would that change your view of this person??? I am often against the idea of women playing hard to get or taking to long to give it up. If you already went through the get-to-know-each-other phase, hey now we making out and my "bell" start ringing, do not limit me, just let the mass begin. The older Haitians have a way of thinking and a lot of parents often tell their kids not to give it up too quick because the man will not respect you. That's BS ! It doesn't matter to me how quick you give it up to me. I might meet you at the club and we do the nasty the same night, as long there is something more than the sex in you to keep me staying, I could careless how quick you let me have it.

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Se Nou Ki Nou, A Pre Nou, Se Nou, N'ap Tou Jour Nou

[philosophenoir]

les exceptions n'ont jamais changE.....

pa de dwet nan tou bouda mwen......
pas d'objet pointu ou pas....nan tou deye mwen....

je vais pas te lecher le cul......

ne me leche pas le cul.....

pas de trucs de PEDE........



Oral sex.......is not a problem.....

positions pa gen problem.......

bel plezi.......
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