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DANIELBONZAM
Joined: 03 May 2006
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How do you say no to sex without "upseptting" him??? (Enpil fanm haitinne pa jam ka master skill sa, Why?)
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SIROMYEL
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Don't lead him on, and then say," we can't do this."
That is so wrong. |
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blackpearl
Joined: 12 Mar 2006
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IF YOU DON'T WANT TO UPSET HIM JUST SAY THAT YOU ARE ON YOUR PERIOD. THAT NEVER FAILS WHEN I USE IT.
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DANIELBONZAM
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| Posted: Sun May 14, 2006 11:53 am Post subject: |
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| IF YOU DON'T WANT TO UPSET HIM JUST SAY THAT YOU ARE ON YOUR PERIOD. THAT NEVER FAILS WHEN I USE IT. |
Faking period. Its very, very bad for relationships!
Here's novel concept; don't worry if you do. Most men would prefer you say no than have sex when you don't want to. If he does want you to perform on demand, change partners. The fact is, you don't need his permission to refuse. If you're polite and he's a nice guy, he might roll over huffliy and sulk for a while but, hopefully, he'll be aware he acting childishly... The big question is: How best to say thanks but no thanks? That really depends on the guy. Try telling the truth! "I'm exhausted and just feel like sleep" or "I don't know why, I just don't feel like it you know. Let's cuddle instead"
So just make it clear you're rejecting sex not him, and as a man, I think a real man should handle it okea...
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KREOLA
Joined: 13 Mar 2006
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First of all, no guy should be upset at the fact that their partner isn't in the mood to have sex or make love
Mwen pa vle  epi mwen pa vle  If your upset because of that then that kinda scares me a bit 
Anger mgmt brothah 
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Haitianone
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DonGabbana
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I always use the CYCLE excuse...and it's a day
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N those who won't stop for no red light???
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DANIELBONZAM
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Refuse to give your partner some bouboune; I think he has every right to get it elsewhere, and the same applies to you, too.. right?
Guys, What do you think???
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KREOLA
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Daniel,
Now if this person is getting rejected from sex then YES go and get it elsewhere.
I believe we are talking about a not in mood situation type of stuff...If my man is not in the mood for sex then I won't pressure him because I won't enjoy the pleasure if he's just lying there on his back while I do all the work on top. 
GABBANA,
I'll just switch into the convincing mode of cramps, bloating, etc.
H1,
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blackpearl
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N those who won't stop for no red light???[/quote]
I LET THEM KNOW THAT I STOP FOR RED LIGHTS AND IT IS VERY UNCOMFORTABLE FOR ME TO DO IT WHILE I M SO MOIST WITH YOU KNOW WHAT. IT WORKS ALL THE TIME
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